Posted in StudentsTeaching on Apr 18, 2010 - 10:35 PM
You know that line we say when someone goes overboard: "He threw in everything but the kitchen sink." Well, some boys at my school wanted to make sure to include the sink into whatever they were mixing because they ripped it out of the wall in one of their bathrooms.Tags for this entry:
k-12 education,
respect,
empowerment,
destructive behavior,
owernship
Apr 19, 2010 - 03:10 AM
“Slowly but surely, this behavior has nearly disappeared. I even see and hear students reprimanding others for disrespecting our space.” What wonderful news!
I’ve never heard about this viewpoint before but it definitely makes sense. Adding these two books to my reading list!
“I don’t just want my students respecting our classroom; I want them to respect the whole school and their community.” This is an excellent goal to strive for as a class. I wonder if you had a discussion about participation within the community, if it would help? Say, how everyone feels about their say in school events, procedures, etc. Maybe an anonymous survey would help? Is there anything particularly stressful happening?
Whatever happens, I applaud you in your work and your perspective, Ammerah. I wish more people could see the situation through your eyes rather than simply shaking a fist at “those delinquent kids!”
Apr 19, 2010 - 02:04 PM
What an important way to see destructive student behavior, as a need for empowerment. One of my favorite things about democratic spaces is the authentic ownership that its members have. It sounds as if your students are thinking, “Why would we destroy our own space?”, which means that what you’re doing is working. Awesome that you keep checking in on the classroom cues that suggest they’re personally invested and feel that they belong.
Thoraia
Apr 19, 2010 - 12:31 AM
This is quite an interesting viewpoint! I like.